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Home Funeral Supplies List: Everything You Need to Buy

The Essential Supplies

You don't need specialty equipment for a home funeral. Everything on this list comes from a grocery store, pharmacy, hardware store, or general retailer. Research estimates family-directed costs at $300 to $680, depending on your cooling method and container choice.

Cooling Supplies ($20–$150)

You need one primary cooling method. Choose based on availability and your comfort level:

Dry ice ($50–$150 for a three-day vigil)

  • 30 pounds for initial setup, then 10–20 pounds daily
  • Available at grocery store ice cream sections (Walmart, Kroger, Safeway), ice suppliers, welding supply shops
  • Call ahead — not every location stocks it every day
  • Also need: paper bags for wrapping, bath towels for insulation, a 3-to-4-inch foam insulating pad

Techni-Ice polymer sheets ($40–$60)

  • Buy 12 sheets (6 on the body, 6 in the freezer rotating)
  • Available online — order in advance if possible
  • Reusable across multiple days
  • Also need: pillowcases to encase the sheets

Frozen gel packs ($20–$40)

  • 6 to 8 large packs, rotated every 3–4 hours
  • Available at any pharmacy or dollar store
  • Least effective for multi-day vigils but adequate for one day
  • Also need: pillowcases for wrapping

Body Care Supplies ($30–$50)

  • Two washbasins — one for soapy water, one for rinse water
  • Mild soap or botanical body wash — nothing harsh or heavily fragranced
  • Clean towels — at least four bath towels and several washcloths
  • Disposable gloves — a box of nitrile or latex gloves
  • Disinfecting oral swabs — for cleaning the mouth and teeth
  • Adult diapers or high-absorbency pads — placed under the perineal area
  • Waterproof wound dressings — for covering any open wounds
  • Heavy-duty scissors — for removing medical tubing if applicable

Optional but appreciated:

  • Essential oils or flower petals for the rinse water
  • Dry shampoo (easier than a full hair wash)
  • Lotion for the hands and face
  • Light makeup supplies if desired

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Positioning Supplies ($10–$15)

  • Small fabric weights for the eyelids — make these by filling small cloth bags with dry rice, sand, or salt
  • Soft scarf or fabric strip — for closing the jaw (wrapped under the chin, tied at the crown)
  • A small pillow — to elevate the head slightly for natural appearance

Room Protection ($20–$30)

  • Heavy-duty waterproof plastic sheeting — painter's drop cloths work well; place under the body to protect the mattress/surface
  • Additional absorbent underpads — disposable bed pads from the pharmacy
  • Trash bags — for soiled materials

Container ($50–$350)

You need something for the body to rest on during the vigil and for transport to the crematory or burial site:

  • Burial shroud ($75–$250) — a simple cotton or linen wrap; available from natural burial suppliers online
  • Cardboard cremation container ($50–$200) — available from crematories, some funeral supply companies, and online retailers
  • Pine casket ($50–$350) — from independent woodworkers, online retailers, or built by the family
  • A flat board or door (free) — some families simply use a sturdy board draped with fabric for the vigil, then transfer to a container for transport

Vigil and Ceremony Supplies

These aren't strictly necessary for body care, but most families want them:

  • Candles and candle holders
  • Fresh flowers or greenery
  • Photographs and personal mementos
  • A guest book or memory cards
  • Chairs or cushions for visitors

Where to Source Everything

Item Where to Buy
Dry ice Grocery stores (call ahead), ice supply companies, welding supply stores
Techni-Ice Online retailers (order 2+ days in advance)
Body care supplies Any pharmacy (CVS, Walgreens, etc.)
Waterproof sheeting Hardware store (painter's section)
Absorbent pads Pharmacy or medical supply (look for "disposable bed pads" or "chux")
Shroud or container Online natural burial suppliers, crematories, funeral supply retailers

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